““I thank my God every time I remember you.” ”
There are people who cross our paths and leave a mark so deep that it changes the shape of who we are. Some walk with us for years, their presence steady and familiar—others show up for only a season but leave fingerprints of grace on our hearts. And often, we don’t recognize their significance until much later, when we look back and realize how intentionally God placed them in our story.
I’ve learned that community isn’t something we accidentally stumble into. It’s something God builds, one person at a time.
When God Uses People as His Hands and Feet
There have been seasons in my life when I’ve prayed for direction or encouragement—and instead of an immediate answer, God sent a person.
A text came at just the right moment.
A friend showed up with coffee and conversation.
A mentor spoke truth that I didn’t necessarily want to hear but needed to receive.
Sometimes His presence looks like a person sitting beside you, listening without trying to fix anything.
Paul understood this kind of gratitude. His letters to the churches overflow with appreciation—not just for what the believers did, but for who they were. “I thank my God every time I remember you.” It wasn’t about grand gestures; it was about their faith, their prayers, their partnership in the gospel. Their lives reminded him of God’s faithfulness.
When we look around at the people in our own lives—the ones praying with us, walking with us, challenging us—it’s an invitation to pause and thank God. These relationships are evidence that He sees us.
Some People Are Meant to Stay, Others to Shape
Not every relationship will last a lifetime. Some are meant for a season, designed to guide, stretch, or even sanctify us.
And that’s okay.
There’s beauty in recognizing that not every person who comes into your life is meant to stay forever. Some are sent to remind you of who you are in Christ. Some are there to walk you through a specific chapter, and others may only stay long enough to point you back toward God.
We often grieve when relationships shift or end, but I’ve learned that even those moments hold gratitude. Because when you trace God’s hand through your story, you’ll often find that He was weaving purpose into every introduction, every goodbye, and every in-between moment.
Gratitude for the Ones Who Walk Beside You
Think of the people who have been spiritual anchors in your life—those who prayed with you when you couldn’t find words, who celebrated your wins, or who gently held space for your pain.
Those people are gifts.
Sometimes it’s easy to overlook the ones who are consistent—the friends who check in, the small group that prays, the mentor who listens without judgment. Yet these steady relationships often carry us through seasons when we might have otherwise given up.
When we stop to thank God for them, it shifts our hearts from expecting to appreciating. It reminds us that we’re not meant to walk this life alone.
When Gratitude Builds Community
In A Pace of Grace, I write about the beauty of living in authentic community—about how vulnerability is what turns acquaintances into sisters and fellowship into family. True community happens when we choose to see one another fully, to celebrate each other’s wins without comparison, and to stand with each other through hardship.
Gratitude is what fuels that kind of connection.
When we thank God for one another, we start to see people the way He does: as image-bearers, as stories in progress, as reflections of His grace.
It’s no coincidence that so many of Paul’s letters start with thanksgiving. Gratitude has a way of softening our hearts toward one another, even in disagreement or distance. When we practice it, we reflect the heart of Christ—who saw people not for what they could give Him, but for who they were becoming through Him.
A Gentle Challenge
This week, I want to invite you to take a few minutes and thank God for the people He’s placed in your life.
Maybe it’s a longtime friend who has seen every side of you and loves you anyway.
Maybe it’s a mentor who helped you grow when you were unsure of your next step.
Or maybe it’s someone who challenged you to heal, to stretch, or to step out in faith.
Write their names down.
Pray for them.
And if you can, tell them.
There’s power in letting someone know that they’ve made a difference—that their obedience to God’s prompting mattered. You never know how much those words might mean to someone who’s been faithfully showing up.
A Prayer of Thankfulness
Lord, thank You for the people You’ve placed in my life.
Thank You for the ones who walk beside me, for those who challenge me, and for those who remind me of Your love.
Help me to see every relationship as a reflection of Your grace.
When I’m tempted to take people for granted, remind me to pause and give thanks.
And when relationships shift or fade, help me trust that You are still writing my story with purpose and care.
Amen.
Reflection Prompt:
Who are three people you can thank God for this week?
What would it look like to express that gratitude—through a note, a message, or a prayer?
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