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The Joy of the Lord

I was talking with a friend recently about something that keeps catching my attention.

It’s the theme of “joy”.

A friend is painting something beautiful centered around it.
Another is releasing her very first song anchored in Nehemiah 8:10.
Books are coming out with joy woven through the pages.
Conversations keep circling back to it.
It’s even in the book I have coming out March 10th!

It’s everywhere right now! I’m loving it!

And I just keep thinking… What is God doing?

When the same theme starts rising in different spaces, through different people, who don’t all know each other… I don’t think that’s random. I can’t help but wonder what is in store for the people of God when this is the common thread being woven together by the Creator of the universe.

It feels like preparation. Not hype or surface-level positivity… But something deeper… steadier.

And honestly, that’s why I wrote about it in A Pace of Grace.

Life isn’t easy and Trials and hardships will come to each of us. But there is good news, my friends: the joy of the Lord is not dependent on our circumstances. Joy in the Lord flows from the Holy Spirit within us.

Life is full of both mountaintops and valleys; yet the joy that can only come from the Lord remains constant. Scripture reminds us, “The joy of the Lord is your strength!” (Nehemiah 8:10). This is a deep, sustaining joy that steadies us even in hardship.

When trials come, we don’t have to pretend they don’t hurt. Instead, we lean into a God who promises His presence, peace, and strength. That’s the part I love.

There isn’t a need to pretend or fake it. We don’t slap a Bible verse on pain and call it healed. Joy is not denial. It’s anchoring. Paul wrote, “Rejoice in the Lord always” (Philippians 4:4) — and he wrote that from prison. His rejoicing didn’t mean chains weren’t real. It meant God was bigger than them. That feels so important in this season.

Joy is not the same thing as happiness. Happiness comes and goes. It rises and falls with circumstances. It’s tied to outcomes. Joy is different. Joy is a fruit of the Spirit because it comes from the Lord. It cannot be created or willed into existence.

Joy is knowing God is faithful even when you don’t understand the storyline. Joy is being able to whisper, “It is well with my soul,” while still admitting, “This is hard.” Pain and joy can sit at the same table.

And I wonder if that’s what God is strengthening in His people right now; a steady, Spirit-formed joy that can hold weight. Maybe we’re being prepared. Maybe joy is the foundation for what’s coming next. Maybe before new assignments, new doors, new growth… He is rooting us deeper. And if that’s true, I want it!

I want to be rooted in Christ.
I want to radiate His beauty.
I want to walk into whatever is next with a spirit that is steady — not because life is calm, but because He is.

If you’ve been sensing this theme too… lean in. Pay attention. Ask Him what He’s strengthening in you… And the surrender and walk in obedience! “For his anger lasts only a moment, but his favor lasts a lifetime! Weeping may last through the night, but joy comes with the morning.” Psalms‬ ‭30‬:‭5‬ ‭NLT‬‬

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Thankfulness That Brings Abundance

““You crown the year with Your goodness, and Your paths overflow with abundance.” ”
— Psalm 65:11

There’s something about gratitude that changes the way we see everything.
When we start to notice God’s fingerprints in the everyday moments—our morning coffee, a child’s laughter, a sunset after a long day—our hearts begin to shift. What once felt small starts to feel sacred. What once felt ordinary becomes evidence of God’s extraordinary grace.

It’s not that life suddenly gets easier. It’s that our perspective changes.
Because when gratitude fills our hearts, scarcity loses its grip.

The Mindset of Scarcity vs. the Posture of Gratitude

For a long time, I lived with a quiet sense of scarcity—always feeling like I needed to do more, be more, have more. I’d look at others’ success or blessings and feel like mine didn’t measure up.

But here’s what I’ve learned: gratitude and comparison can’t coexist.
When you’re truly thankful, you stop counting what’s missing and start celebrating what’s already there.

Psalm 65:11 says, “You crown the year with Your goodness, and Your paths overflow with abundance.” That word overflow paints such a vivid picture—it’s not a trickle of blessing, it’s a river. God’s goodness doesn’t run out; it keeps flowing, even when we can’t see it.

When we live with gratitude, we begin to recognize that abundance isn’t always about having more—it’s about realizing we already have enough.

Gratitude Multiplies What We Have

There’s a story in John 6 that I come back to often—the feeding of the five thousand. A young boy offered his small lunch of five loaves and two fish, and Jesus gave thanks.

That’s it. He gave thanks.
And what was small became more than enough.

It’s such a simple but powerful reminder: gratitude multiplies.
When we place what we have in God’s hands and thank Him for it, He transforms it into abundance—whether that’s time, energy, finances, or opportunities.

I’ve seen this in my own life again and again. Times when I’ve felt stretched thin or unsure how I’d manage, and yet God met every need—sometimes through provision, sometimes through peace.

Abundance isn’t just what’s in our hands. It’s what God does with our open hearts.

When Gratitude Leads to Obedience

In A Pace of Grace, I talk about how gratitude and obedience are deeply connected. When we recognize all that God has done for us, our natural response is to live from a place of trust and surrender.

Obedience becomes less about striving and more about aligning our hearts with His goodness.
We stop asking, “What if I give this up?” and start saying, “How could I not, after all He’s given me?”

Gratitude changes how we approach our callings, our work, and even our waiting seasons.
It turns our focus from “I have to” to “I get to.”
And in that shift, joy begins to bloom.

Abundance Isn’t Always What We Expect

Sometimes abundance looks like answered prayers and doors opening wide. Other times, it looks like peace in the middle of what feels like lack.

True abundance isn’t measured by what’s in your bank account or on your calendar. It’s measured by the fullness of your soul.

You might be in a season where everything feels uncertain—where resources are tight or dreams are delayed. But even there, God’s goodness is not absent. It might be showing up in small ways: a text from a friend, a moment of laughter, a breath of calm in the middle of chaos.

When we begin to thank God for those moments, we start to see that abundance has been surrounding us all along.

A Gentle Challenge

This week, I want to invite you to practice abundance thinking.
Instead of focusing on what’s missing, take a moment each day to write down what you already have.

Maybe it’s the comfort of home, the joy of family, the gift of health, or the peace that comes from knowing Jesus.

Ask yourself:

  • Where have I seen God’s goodness this week?

  • What can I thank Him for right now, even before I see the outcome?

  • How can I use what I already have to bless someone else?

Gratitude isn’t passive—it’s active. The more we thank God, the more aware we become of His presence in our daily lives. And that awareness is where true abundance begins.

A Prayer of Thankfulness

Lord, thank You for Your goodness that never runs out.
Teach me to see abundance not as more things, but as more of You.
Help me recognize the blessings You’ve already placed in my life and to hold them with open hands.
Let gratitude shape my days and overflow from my heart, so that others may see Your goodness through me.
Amen.

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Thankful for the People God Brings into Our Lives

““I thank my God every time I remember you.” ”
— Philippians 1:3

There are people who cross our paths and leave a mark so deep that it changes the shape of who we are. Some walk with us for years, their presence steady and familiar—others show up for only a season but leave fingerprints of grace on our hearts. And often, we don’t recognize their significance until much later, when we look back and realize how intentionally God placed them in our story.

I’ve learned that community isn’t something we accidentally stumble into. It’s something God builds, one person at a time.

When God Uses People as His Hands and Feet

There have been seasons in my life when I’ve prayed for direction or encouragement—and instead of an immediate answer, God sent a person.
A text came at just the right moment.
A friend showed up with coffee and conversation.
A mentor spoke truth that I didn’t necessarily want to hear but needed to receive.

Sometimes His presence looks like a person sitting beside you, listening without trying to fix anything.

Paul understood this kind of gratitude. His letters to the churches overflow with appreciation—not just for what the believers did, but for who they were. “I thank my God every time I remember you.” It wasn’t about grand gestures; it was about their faith, their prayers, their partnership in the gospel. Their lives reminded him of God’s faithfulness.

When we look around at the people in our own lives—the ones praying with us, walking with us, challenging us—it’s an invitation to pause and thank God. These relationships are evidence that He sees us.

Some People Are Meant to Stay, Others to Shape

Not every relationship will last a lifetime. Some are meant for a season, designed to guide, stretch, or even sanctify us.
And that’s okay.

There’s beauty in recognizing that not every person who comes into your life is meant to stay forever. Some are sent to remind you of who you are in Christ. Some are there to walk you through a specific chapter, and others may only stay long enough to point you back toward God.

We often grieve when relationships shift or end, but I’ve learned that even those moments hold gratitude. Because when you trace God’s hand through your story, you’ll often find that He was weaving purpose into every introduction, every goodbye, and every in-between moment.

Gratitude for the Ones Who Walk Beside You

Think of the people who have been spiritual anchors in your life—those who prayed with you when you couldn’t find words, who celebrated your wins, or who gently held space for your pain.
Those people are gifts.

Sometimes it’s easy to overlook the ones who are consistent—the friends who check in, the small group that prays, the mentor who listens without judgment. Yet these steady relationships often carry us through seasons when we might have otherwise given up.

When we stop to thank God for them, it shifts our hearts from expecting to appreciating. It reminds us that we’re not meant to walk this life alone.

When Gratitude Builds Community

In A Pace of Grace, I write about the beauty of living in authentic community—about how vulnerability is what turns acquaintances into sisters and fellowship into family. True community happens when we choose to see one another fully, to celebrate each other’s wins without comparison, and to stand with each other through hardship.

Gratitude is what fuels that kind of connection.
When we thank God for one another, we start to see people the way He does: as image-bearers, as stories in progress, as reflections of His grace.

It’s no coincidence that so many of Paul’s letters start with thanksgiving. Gratitude has a way of softening our hearts toward one another, even in disagreement or distance. When we practice it, we reflect the heart of Christ—who saw people not for what they could give Him, but for who they were becoming through Him.

A Gentle Challenge

This week, I want to invite you to take a few minutes and thank God for the people He’s placed in your life.

Maybe it’s a longtime friend who has seen every side of you and loves you anyway.
Maybe it’s a mentor who helped you grow when you were unsure of your next step.
Or maybe it’s someone who challenged you to heal, to stretch, or to step out in faith.

Write their names down.
Pray for them.
And if you can, tell them.

There’s power in letting someone know that they’ve made a difference—that their obedience to God’s prompting mattered. You never know how much those words might mean to someone who’s been faithfully showing up.

A Prayer of Thankfulness

Lord, thank You for the people You’ve placed in my life.
Thank You for the ones who walk beside me, for those who challenge me, and for those who remind me of Your love.
Help me to see every relationship as a reflection of Your grace.
When I’m tempted to take people for granted, remind me to pause and give thanks.
And when relationships shift or fade, help me trust that You are still writing my story with purpose and care.
Amen.

Reflection Prompt:

  • Who are three people you can thank God for this week?

  • What would it look like to express that gratitude—through a note, a message, or a prayer?

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