The Myth of the Perfect Summer: Letting Go of Expectations

Come to me, all who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.
— Matthew 11:28

When summer rolls around, I always imagine long, slow mornings with coffee in hand, kids playing happily in the yard, and unhurried evenings under twinkle lights. But by the second week of June, I’m usually staring down a packed calendar, sticky floors, and a to-do list that didn’t take a summer vacation.

Somewhere along the way, we bought into the idea that summer should be magical, memorable, and perfectly curated. Whether it’s Pinterest-worthy vacations, a house full of fun (but exhausting) activities, or trying to be everything to everyone—our expectations can weigh us down.

But Jesus doesn’t invite us into a “perfect” summer. He invites us into rest. Into stillness. Into His presence—right in the middle of messy living rooms and noisy pool days.

What if this summer, we laid down the pressure to make it perfect and chose to make it peaceful instead?

What if the most beautiful moments weren’t the ones we planned, but the ones we paused for?

The gentle breeze on a hot afternoon. A spontaneous dance party in the kitchen. A quiet moment in the Word before anyone else wakes up. These aren’t interruptions—they’re invitations.

So friend, if you’re already feeling the weight of summer expectations, take a deep breath. Jesus isn’t asking you to impress Him—He’s inviting you to rest in Him.

Slow-Down Spiritual Practice: The “One Thing” Prayer

Each morning this week, ask God: “What’s one thing I need to let go of today? And what’s one thing You’re inviting me to receive?”

Write it down. Let go of the burden. Receive the grace. Sometimes slowing down starts with surrendering just one thing.

What to Do When You Feel Spiritually Stuck

What to Do When You Feel Spiritually Stuck

Have you ever felt spiritually stuck? Like you’re going through the motions but nothing feels alive? The prayers feel flat. The Bible feels confusing or distant. And you wonder if something’s wrong with you.

f that’s you—I want you to know: You’re not broken. You’re human. And you’re not alone. Dry seasons have purpose. Even the strongest believers go through dry or stuck seasons. (Just read the Psalms. David was no stranger to this.)

So what do we do when we feel spiritually stuck? Here’s what’s been helping me—and I pray it encourages you too.

How to Cultivate Joy When You’re Weary

How to Cultivate Joy When You’re Weary

Joy isn’t the absence of weariness—it’s the presence of God.

I don’t know about you, but some days joy feels easy. The sun is shining, the coffee is hot, and the kids are actually getting along. (A miracle in itself.)

But other days? Joy feels like a choice I have to fight for. Not because I don’t love my life. Not because I’m not grateful. But because weariness is real.

If you’re there too, I want to gently remind you: Joy and weariness can coexist. And you can cultivate joy right where you are.

Finding Peace When Life Doesn’t Slow Down

Finding Peace When Life Doesn’t Slow Down

Because sometimes the pace won’t change, but your heart can.

If your calendar looks anything like mine right now, it feels like May-cember. School is wrapping up. Sports are in full swing. Work is busy. Family life is non-stop. And honestly? Slowing down isn’t always an option.

But here’s what I’m learning in this season: Peace doesn’t always come from a lighter schedule. Sometimes, peace is found right in the middle of the hustle — when our hearts pause even if our calendars can’t.

New Mercies in May: Embracing God’s Fresh Start for Your Life

New Mercies in May: Embracing God’s Fresh Start for Your Life

There’s something about flipping the calendar to a new month that feels like a quiet invitation. A gentle reset. A moment to breathe. As May begins, it reminds me of Lamentations 3:23: “His mercies are new every morning; great is Your faithfulness.” And if God’s mercies are new every morning, they’re certainly new every month too.

Finding Rest in God

Finding Rest in God

In a world that glorifies busyness, we are constantly taught to find renewal in fleeting comforts like bubble baths, pedicures, or a glass of wine. While these things may offer temporary relief, the truth is that genuine rest and renewal can only be found in God.

Jesus extends this invitation to us: "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light." — Matthew 11:28-30

This sacred invitation is a reminder that we don’t have to carry the weight of our responsibilities alone. True rest is found when we lay our burdens at His feet and embrace the rhythm of grace He designed for our lives.

Lessons from the Trail: Trusting God’s Path

Lessons from the Trail: Trusting God’s Path

Sometimes, life’s lessons unfold in the most unexpected places. For me, it was on a quiet trail, with different shoes and a different path. Usually, I lace up my trusty hiking boots and tackle steep mountainsides. But that day, I wore my barefoot shoes—remnants from a fitness challenge—and opted for the "easy" side of the mountain. Little did I know, the change in footwear and terrain would lead to a deeper spiritual insight.

Climbing Life’s Mountains

Climbing Life’s Mountains

A few days after Christmas, I found myself on a mountain trail. The air was crisp, the path winding, and my heart eager to conquer the hike. I started out strong, charging ahead with determination. But as the trail steepened and the terrain grew rougher, I felt my energy drain. My lungs burned, my legs ached, and I realized I’d made a mistake: I had started out running instead of taking it slow.

The Lord began to speak to my heart on that trail. How often do I do this in life? I start with enthusiasm, leaning into my own strength and my own pace, only to find myself worn out and unable to continue when trials come. This hike became a living metaphor for the way God calls us to live—not rushing ahead but walking in stride with Him.

Establish the Work of Our Hands – Living with Purpose and Beauty

“And let the beauty and delightfulness of the Lord our God be upon us; confirm and establish the work of our hands—yes, the work of our hands, confirm and establish it.”

Psalm 90:17 (AMPC)

As we approach the close of another year, it’s natural to reflect on all we’ve done—our accomplishments, our failures, and the impact we’ve left behind. In the flurry of tasks and responsibilities, it’s easy to wonder: Does what I do really matter? Is this work significant?

Psalm 90:17 answers those questions with a resounding yes. It reminds us that our work—when rooted in God—is not only meaningful but also blessed by His beauty and permanence.

The Beauty of the Lord Upon Us

The Amplified Classic version of this verse emphasizes the “beauty and delightfulness of the Lord.” This isn’t merely external beauty but a radiance that flows from being aligned with God’s purposes. When we walk in step with Him, even the most mundane tasks—washing dishes, comforting a crying baby, balancing work deadlines—take on a divine glow.

God’s beauty transforms our perspective. The endless to-do lists aren’t just tasks; they’re opportunities to reflect His character. The small moments of kindness we show to others become seeds of eternity. Even our mistakes, when surrendered to Him, can become beautiful examples of His grace and redemption.

Establishing the Work of Our Hands

The psalmist’s prayer is that God would confirm and establish the work of our hands. In a world where so much feels fleeting, this prayer reminds us that what we do in partnership with God has eternal significance.

When we’re overwhelmed by busyness or consumed by doubt, this verse invites us to pause and seek God’s guidance. It’s not about striving harder or doing more; it’s about aligning our work with His plans. As we do, He takes our efforts—however small—and gives them lasting impact.

Living Beautifully in the Everyday

At Live Beautiful Ministries, we believe that beauty begins in the heart. As daughters of God, we are called to live in a way that reflects His goodness and grace in every aspect of our lives.

To live beautifully means:

  1. Inviting God into our work - Whether you're crafting a presentation, cooking dinner, or ministering to a friend, pray over your work. Ask God to guide your hands and establish your efforts for His glory.

  2. Resting in His delight - You don't have to earn His approval. God delights in you simply because you are His. Let this truth free you from striving for perfection.

  3. Embracing small beginnings - The seemingly insignificant moments matter.
    A kind word, a helping hand, a prayer whispered in faith-God uses these to build His kingdom.

A Prayer for the New Year

As we step into the next season, let’s make Psalm 90:17 our prayer:

Lord, let Your beauty rest upon us. May Your presence fill our hearts and our homes with delightfulness and peace. Establish the work of our hands—whether big or small. May everything we do be a reflection of Your goodness and bring glory to Your name. Amen.

Take heart, dear sister. What you do matters. When surrendered to God, your work becomes a masterpiece of eternal significance—a reflection of His beauty and love for the world.

Let’s walk into this new year with purpose, rooted in His grace, and reflecting the true beauty of Christ.