spiritual growth

When the Outcome Isn’t What You Expected

You obeyed.
You prayed.
You trusted.
And then… it didn’t turn out the way you imagined.

What do you do when obedience doesn’t lead to the outcome you hoped for?

Maybe the ministry didn’t grow.
Maybe the relationship didn’t heal.
Maybe the opportunity closed.
Maybe you felt alone in your yes.

It’s in these moments we find out what our obedience was really rooted in.

“Obedience is not a transaction; it’s a transformation. God isn’t after results. He’s after your heart.”
A Pace of Grace, Chapter 5

Sometimes we obey hoping it will produce something visible—something we can measure. But God is often doing something invisible.
Something eternal.

He’s forming you.
Training your trust.
Building your endurance.
And teaching you how to walk by faith, not by outcome.

“God isn’t only working through your obedience—He’s working in you as you obey.”

The fruit may not look like what you expected.
But that doesn’t mean your yes was wasted.

You never know what God is protecting you from, preparing you for, or producing behind the scenes.

So don’t let a disappointing outcome convince you that God didn’t move.
He did.
He is.
And He will.

Because obedience that honors Him always bears fruit.
Even if it takes a while to see.

Reflect + Respond:

  • Has obedience ever led you somewhere unexpected?

  • What did you learn about God—or about yourself—in that process?

Don’t measure the worth of your obedience by the size of the outcome.
Measure it by the nearness of your Savior.

Scripture for the Week:

“Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to Him, and He will make your paths straight.”
—Proverbs 3:5–6 (NIV)

💛 From the Pages of A Pace of Grace

This post wraps up our August Called series, inspired by Chapter 5 of my upcoming book, A Pace of Grace.
Because grace doesn’t always show up in the result—
Sometimes, it shows up in the middle of your yes.

Coming February 2026 from Leafwood Publishers.

Lessons from the Trail: Trusting God’s Path

Lessons from the Trail: Trusting God’s Path

Sometimes, life’s lessons unfold in the most unexpected places. For me, it was on a quiet trail, with different shoes and a different path. Usually, I lace up my trusty hiking boots and tackle steep mountainsides. But that day, I wore my barefoot shoes—remnants from a fitness challenge—and opted for the "easy" side of the mountain. Little did I know, the change in footwear and terrain would lead to a deeper spiritual insight.

Climbing Life’s Mountains

Climbing Life’s Mountains

A few days after Christmas, I found myself on a mountain trail. The air was crisp, the path winding, and my heart eager to conquer the hike. I started out strong, charging ahead with determination. But as the trail steepened and the terrain grew rougher, I felt my energy drain. My lungs burned, my legs ached, and I realized I’d made a mistake: I had started out running instead of taking it slow.

The Lord began to speak to my heart on that trail. How often do I do this in life? I start with enthusiasm, leaning into my own strength and my own pace, only to find myself worn out and unable to continue when trials come. This hike became a living metaphor for the way God calls us to live—not rushing ahead but walking in stride with Him.

“Starting Over, But Not From Scratch”

“Starting Over, But Not From Scratch”

Have you ever felt defeated because you’re starting over… again? Maybe it’s the third time, the tenth, or the twentieth. You’ve put in the work before, only to face setbacks or interruptions. I know how discouraging that can feel. Yesterday, as I was talking about restarting something for the third time, someone said something that completely reframed my perspective:

“You’re not starting as a beginner this time; you’re starting with experience.”

What a powerful truth!