Rest

Small Moments, Sacred Invitations

“But Mary treasured up all these things and pondered them in her heart.”
— Luke 2:19

While the world hurried on around her, Mary paused. She noticed. She held the moments close and allowed God’s work to sink deep into her heart.

Advent invites us into that same posture—noticing God’s presence in the small, ordinary moments we’re often tempted to rush past. The Spirit is still speaking… often softly… and always close.

I’ve been paying attention this week—truly paying attention. And what I’m noticing is how often God speaks in the small places. Not the spectacular ones. Not the spotlight moments. But the quiet, ordinary spaces of daily life.

A soft whisper while loading the dishwasher.
A nudge during a drive across town.
A moment of peace while folding laundry.
A surprising tenderness in the middle of a chaotic morning.

It’s as if the Holy Spirit is saying, “I’m here too. You just have to notice.”

We talk about wanting to experience God in December, but sometimes we miss Him because we’re looking everywhere except the moment right in front of us. We expect Him at the candlelight service, but forget He meets us while we’re wrapping gifts or wiping down counters.

This is a season filled with sacred invitations—little moments woven into our days where God is offering His nearness.

What if we didn’t rush past them this year?

For me, slowing down isn’t about doing less for the sake of minimalism. It’s about creating enough space inside to recognize when the Spirit is whispering, “Pause… I’m here.”

A simple practice for this week:

Take 3–5 minutes each day to sit in quiet stillness and ask, “Holy Spirit, what are You doing around me today?”


Sisterhood of Grace Invitation

One of the ways I practice noticing God is by listening to how He’s moving in other women’s lives. In our Sisterhood of Grace community, we share those small, sacred moments—the whispers, the prayers, the questions.

If you’re hungry for a space where slowing down and spiritual formation are encouraged, you’re welcome there. Join us a Sisterhood of Grace Facebook Group here!

Making Room: Preparing My Heart for a Spirit-Led Season

“She wrapped him in cloths and placed him in a manger, because there was no guest room available for them.”
— Luke 2:7

There wasn’t room for Jesus in the inn that night—only space in a humble manger, simple and unexpected. Yet it was there, in the quiet and the unspectacular, that God chose to enter the world.

As December begins, I find myself asking a gentle but necessary question: Am I making room for Jesus in my own life? Or has my pace filled every corner of this season?



December has a way of sweeping us up into more—more plans, more gatherings, more expectations, more to do. And if I’m honest, I’ve spent many years arriving at Christmas morning with a tired heart and a scattered spirit. The season meant to draw me closer to Jesus somehow pulled me in every other direction.

But this year, I feel the Spirit gently inviting me to prepare differently.

Instead of filling the month, I want to make room.
Instead of moving quickly, I want to move quietly.
Instead of letting the world set the pace, I want to let Jesus lead.

When I look at the Christmas story, one line always catches me: “There was no room for them.” No room for Mary, Joseph, or the Savior of the world. And I can’t help but wonder… how often do I unintentionally do the same? How often does my pace leave no room for Jesus to actually meet me?

So I’m choosing a slower posture this December. I want to notice God in the everyday moments—the quiet mornings with coffee, the soft glow of Christmas lights, the laughter of my girls in the next room. I want to feel the Spirit’s nudge in my spirit before I feel the pull of my to-do list.

Maybe you feel the same longing.

If so, let’s prepare our hearts together. Let’s make room for a Spirit-led season… one slow, surrendered moment at a time.

A simple practice for this week:

Ask the Lord, “What is one thing I can release so I have space for You?”
And then actually release it.


Sisterhood of Grace Invitation

If you’re craving a slower, more intentional December—and you want to walk through it with other women who are choosing presence over pressure—I’d love to invite you into our Sisterhood of Grace Facebook community. Join us here!

It’s a space for encouragement, prayer, gentle conversation, and reminders that God meets us in the middle of real life. No striving. No pretending. Just women learning how to live rooted in Christ together.

The Fruit of Rest

“I am the vine; you are the branches. If you remain in me and I in you, you will bear much fruit; apart from me you can do nothing.”
— John 15:5

We’ve spent the past month talking about slowing down—about breathing, pausing, and trusting God with the parts of life that feel like too much. But rest isn’t just about stopping; it’s about what grows when we do.

When we finally choose to rest, we start to notice something remarkable: fruit begins to form quietly in the stillness.

Peace replaces hurry.
Joy returns where anxiety once lived.
Patience grows in places we thought were barren.
And our hearts begin to soften again—toward God, toward others, and even toward ourselves.

“Rest isn’t the absence of work—it’s the presence of peace.”


The Fruit That Comes From Abiding

Jesus said that when we remain in Him—when we stay close, connected, and rooted—that’s when the fruit comes. We can’t force growth, just like we can’t make peace appear on command. But when we abide, when we rest in His love, fruit grows naturally.

Rest produces fruit that hustle never could. It creates space for spiritual depth, emotional healing, and genuine connection. It helps us move from surviving to thriving—because we’re no longer running on empty, but overflowing from His strength.


A New Kind of Productivity

The world measures success by output. God measures it by intimacy.

In His kingdom, productivity looks like patience. Success looks like faithfulness. Rest looks like trust.

Maybe that’s why Jesus could nap in the middle of a storm—because His peace wasn’t tied to what was happening around Him, but to who He was anchored to.

“When we rest, we remind the world that peace isn’t earned—it’s received.”


A Simple Step This Week

As you prepare to turn the corner into the holidays, take time to look back over this month and ask God what He’s been cultivating in you.

  • Pause and reflect. What fruit has rest produced in your life this month—peace, patience, gratitude, clarity, or healing?

  • Celebrate small growth. Write down one way you’ve seen God move in your heart through this journey.

  • Pray forward. Ask God to help you carry this rhythm of rest into the next season.


Reflection Questions

  • How has practicing rest changed the way you see your relationship with God?

  • What new fruit is beginning to grow in your life as a result of slowing down?


A Prayer for Fruitful Rest

Father, thank You for teaching me to slow down. Thank You for meeting me in the quiet and showing me that rest isn’t wasted—it’s where You do Your deepest work. Help me to remain in You so that my life bears fruit that lasts. Let peace, joy, and gentleness overflow from my time with You. In Jesus’ name, amen.


Your Turn: What fruit have you seen from choosing rest this month? Share in the comments so we can celebrate together! And as we step into the busy holiday season, remember this truth: when you stay rooted in Christ, your soul will flourish—even in the busiest seasons of life. 🌻

Rest as Worship: Emptying the Cup

“Be still, and know that I am God.”
— Psalm 46:10

A story goes that a wise monk once hosted a man known for his knowledge and endless opinions. As they sat together, the monk poured tea until the cup overflowed. Startled, the man exclaimed, “Stop! It’s already full!”

The monk smiled gently. “Exactly,” he said. “Like this cup, your mind is so full that nothing new can enter.”

That story gets me every time. Because I’ve lived with a mind that’s too full—a heart overflowing with thoughts, worries, responsibilities, and noise. My days are packed with doing, planning, and pouring out. And yet, the more I fill my schedule, the emptier I feel inside.

Maybe you know that feeling too.

“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.”
— Matthew 11:28

When the Cup Overflows

We think we need to manage one more task, say yes to one more thing, or push through one more week—but what we really need is space. Rest is the emptying that makes room for what truly matters.

“You can’t receive what God wants to pour in if your soul is already overflowing.”

Rest isn’t a reward for finishing your to-do list—it’s a way of saying, “God, I trust You to hold what I can’t.”

When we slow down long enough to breathe and be still, we’re reminded that the world doesn’t depend on us. God holds it all together. And in that stillness, our hearts finally have room to listen.


Rest as Worship

Rest isn’t just physical—it’s spiritual. Every time you stop striving, you’re declaring that God is enough. You’re saying, “My identity isn’t in what I do—it’s in who You are.”

“Rest is worship because it shifts the focus from what we can do to what God has already done.”

When you light a candle, close your eyes, or take a quiet walk and whisper “thank You,” that’s worship. When you turn off the noise and let your soul breathe, that’s worship. When you let go of guilt for doing less and receive God’s peace instead, that’s worship.

As we head into the holiday season—a time that tends to pull us in every direction—let’s make a conscious choice: to keep our cups half-empty so there’s room for God to fill them.


A Simple Step This Week

Here are a few gentle ways to practice rest as worship this week:

  • Reclaim quiet. Start or end your day with five minutes of silence. Let God’s presence be enough.

  • Simplify your yes. Before committing to something, pause and pray: “God, is this for this season?”

  • Name your gratitude. Write down three small things that reminded you of God’s presence this week.


Reflection Questions

  • Where in your life is your cup overflowing—and what needs to be poured out?

  • How might slowing down this week become an act of worship instead of just “self-care”?


A Prayer for a Quieted Soul

God, my heart feels full of noise and my hands are tired from holding too much. Teach me to set things down. Help me see rest not as a break from worship, but as part of it. Empty what needs to go so You can fill me with Your peace. Keep me close to Your heart as I move into this next season. Amen.


Your Turn: What’s one way you can make rest a form of worship this week? Share your thoughts in the comments—we’d love to hear how you’re finding peace in the pause. And as we head toward the holidays, remember: rest isn’t what happens when life slows down—it’s what happens when we invite God in. 💛

Rest Is Resistance

 By the seventh day God had finished the work he had been doing; so on the seventh day he rested from all his work. Then God blessed the seventh day and made it holy, because on it he rested from all the work of creating that he had done. Genesis 2:2-3

I am the vine; you are the branches. If you remain in me and I in you, you will bear much fruit; apart from me you can do nothing.
— John 15:5

There’s a phrase I’ve been holding onto lately: Rest is resistance.

In a culture that celebrates hustle and glorifies exhaustion, slowing down feels rebellious. We’re taught to measure our worth by what we accomplish, how busy we stay, and how much we can juggle before dropping something. But God offers us a completely different rhythm—one that starts with rest, not performance.

From the very beginning, He modeled it. “By the seventh day God had finished the work he had been doing; so on the seventh day he rested from all his work.” (Genesis 2:2)

God didn’t rest because He was tired. He rested because creation was complete. He looked at all He had made and called it good. Rest wasn’t the reward for His work—it was part of the work itself.


The Quiet Courage of Saying “Enough”

Rest takes courage. It means choosing to believe that your value doesn’t depend on what you produce.

“Rest says: I have nothing to prove and nothing to earn. I am already loved.”

When we stop striving, we confront the voices that tell us we’re falling behind or not doing enough. But here’s the truth—rest isn’t laziness. It’s worship. It’s trusting that God is still working even when we’re not.

Every time we rest, we declare, “The world doesn’t revolve around me—it revolves around Him.”


Redefining Success

We’ve been conditioned to chase goals, numbers, and accolades. But Jesus redefined success when He said in John 15:5, “Apart from me, you can do nothing.”

The goal isn’t to do more—it’s to abide more deeply.
When we live connected to Him, fruit happens naturally. Peace, patience, love—they flow from being rooted in His presence, not from our own effort.

So maybe rest is less about “getting ahead” and more about getting aligned.

“Rest isn’t the pause before productivity—it’s the posture of trust that fuels it.”


A Simple Step This Week

Take one intentional action that declares your trust in God’s provision this week:

  • Set a boundary. Say no to one thing that drains you. It’s okay to disappoint people to be faithful to God.

  • Plan a Sabbath window. It doesn’t have to be a full day—start with half. Turn off your phone, light a candle, go for a walk, read Scripture, laugh with your people. Let your soul breathe.

  • Redefine your win. At the end of the week, don’t measure success by what you accomplished. Measure it by how present you were—with God, with people, and with yourself.


Reflection Questions

  • What would it look like for you to resist hustle this week?

  • Where are you being invited to trust God more than your own effort?


A Prayer for Surrender

Father, thank You for modeling rest. Forgive me for believing that my worth comes from what I produce. Teach me to rest as an act of worship—to trust that You’re still working when I’m not. Help me release control, slow my pace, and abide in Your love. Amen.


Your Turn: What does “rest as resistance” look like in your life right now? Share your thoughts in the comments—we grow stronger when we rest together. And if this encouraged you, send it to someone who’s tired of striving and needs the reminder: you don’t have to earn peace—it’s already yours in Christ. 💛



When You’re Too Busy to Breath…

Then Jesus said, “Come to me, all of you who are weary and carry heavy burdens, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you. Let me teach you, because I am humble and gentle at heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy to bear, and the burden I give you is light.
— Matthew 11:28–30

I don’t know about you, but fall often feels like a sprint. My planner fills faster than I can flip the pages—school schedules, sports practices, ministry events, family commitments, and the unexpected things that pop up when I already feel maxed out. Some days I catch myself moving from one thing to the next so quickly that I can’t even remember how I got there. It feels like life is on fast-forward while my soul is lagging behind.

Busyness has a way of sneaking in and pretending to be normal. We shrug our shoulders and say, “That’s just life,” but deep down, our hearts know better. Because busyness doesn’t just keep us moving—it numbs us. It covers up our weariness and distracts us from what our souls need most: God’s presence.

“Numbing isn’t the same as resting. Numbing helps us escape. Rest helps us recover.”

Here’s the kicker: when I finally “make time” to rest, I don’t always feel rested. I’ll grab a night on the couch with a show or scroll endlessly on my phone, only to wake up the next day just as depleted. Have you been there? The truth is, numbing isn’t the same as resting. Numbing helps us escape for a moment. Rest helps us recover for the long haul.

And Jesus knew this. That’s why His invitation in Matthew 11:28–30 is so striking:

“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.”

He doesn’t say, “Come to me, and I’ll give you more strength to keep hustling.” He says, “I will give you rest.” His rest goes deeper than a nap or a break in the calendar. It’s soul-rest—the kind that reorders our hearts, re-centers our minds, and quiets the chaos within.

 

Choosing Rest as an Act of Trust

Here’s the hard part: choosing rest means trusting God enough to stop. It’s an act of faith to believe that the world keeps spinning even if we step off the treadmill. Rest says, “God, You’re in control. I don’t have to prove my worth with productivity.”

That’s hard to swallow in a culture that glorifies hustle. But the truth is, when our worth is tied to what we accomplish, we’ll never feel like enough.

This fall, as the calendar heats up and the holiday season starts creeping in, maybe God is inviting us into a different way. A slower, gentler rhythm. A pace of grace.

 

A Simple Step This Week

Instead of trying to overhaul your whole schedule, start small. Here are two ways you can practice rest this week:

 • Trade numbing for presence. Swap out one hour of scrolling or TV for silence, Scripture, or prayer. Even if it feels awkward at first, sit with it. God loves to meet us in the quiet.

 • Write yourself a permission slip. Literally. On a sticky note or card, write: “I am allowed to rest because God created me for His rhythm, not the world’s.” Keep it where you’ll see it when guilt creeps in.


Reflection Questions

 • Where do you usually run when you’re tired—toward God or toward distraction?

 • What’s one area of your life where you’re trying to prove your worth through productivity?

 

A Prayer for the Weary

Jesus, I am tired. The pace of life feels overwhelming, and I confess I’ve been running to distractions instead of to You. Teach me to trust You enough to stop. Quiet my soul and set my pace to match Your grace. Amen.

Your Turn: What helps you slow down when life feels relentless? Share your rhythms of rest in the comments—I’d love to hear from you. And if this encouraged you, pin it or pass it on to a friend who needs the reminder: rest isn’t indulgent—it’s holy.

 

When Letting Go Feels Like Losing Control

When Letting Go Feels Like Losing Control

Surrender isn’t waving a white flag in defeat—it’s choosing trust over control. In a world that glorifies hustle and hyper-independence, the call to “let go and let God” sounds like foolishness. But God’s pace often begins where ours ends. In this post, you’ll reflect on how surrendering your own plans doesn’t mean giving up—it means stepping into the peace that only comes when God leads. Share a moment from your own story when surrender led to unexpected peace.

Finding Peace When Life Doesn’t Slow Down

Finding Peace When Life Doesn’t Slow Down

Because sometimes the pace won’t change, but your heart can.

If your calendar looks anything like mine right now, it feels like May-cember. School is wrapping up. Sports are in full swing. Work is busy. Family life is non-stop. And honestly? Slowing down isn’t always an option.

But here’s what I’m learning in this season: Peace doesn’t always come from a lighter schedule. Sometimes, peace is found right in the middle of the hustle — when our hearts pause even if our calendars can’t.